We Were Hit
Brienne Walsh had been writing about the family for years.
Not in memoranda. Not in court filings. On a blog, A Brie Grows in Brooklyn, where she published the kind of detailed, unsoftened prose that arrives when a person processes the world by describing it. The blog’s subtitle read: “Mabel’s not crazy… she’s unusual.” It ran on Tumblr. The audience was small. The content was personal in the way that public writing becomes personal when the writer cannot distinguish between processing and confessing.
She wrote about her childhood the way she had experienced it. The dynamics. The expectations. The internal rules that governed a family that appeared one way from the outside and operated differently from the inside. She wrote about her mother.
The blog occupied a particular kind of evidentiary space, though no one recognized it as evidentiary at the time. It was a lifestyle blog on Tumblr, positioned between recipes and Brooklyn motherhood dispatches and reflections on art criticism. Its header featured stained glass. The admissions of abuse appeared in the same register as the rest of the writing, at the same pace, formatted the same way, which is what made them different from any declaration or affidavit or statement to police. A person filing a legal document knows the words will be weighed in an adversarial proceeding. A person writing a blog post at midnight is processing her own life. And the processing, because it was honest in the way that public writing sometimes accidentally is, produced detail more specific and more damning than any document Steve’s attorneys had yet obtained through formal discovery.
The blog posts spanned years before the custody case existed, before Steve, before Evie, before any court filing connected to the events this story describes. They were Brienne’s record of Brienne’s childhood.
In August 2019, she wrote about Maura’s discipline.
Other posts went further back. The great-grandmother had hit Maura’s mother with a belt, blinding her in one eye. Brienne’s father would come into their room at night if they couldn’t sleep. She wet the bed until she was sixteen. The discipline method had a lineage that extended generations before the house at Tara Knoll was built and the hedgerows were planted and the long driveway was paved.
In a different post, from 2010, eight years before the custody case began, Brienne described Maura’s technique with specificity that a child would retain.
The post was written in 2010. A “Deep Pinch Mark on Upper Right Thigh” was documented on Evie and sent to the Attorney for the Child, Jennifer Jackman, in 2019. Nine years apart. Two generations. The same method.
Brienne had also written about the adopted sisters who were forced to dress alike, one of whom ran away to Savannah. She wrote about her father’s temper. She wrote that the family doctor had diagnosed her as Bipolar II after hearing her family history, and she wasn’t sure the diagnosis was real, or just what happens when a doctor hears the Walsh name and reaches for the nearest label.
She wrote all of this in the open, on the internet, for years.
In October 2019, Tara threatened to sue.
The email subject line was “It’s Time to Talk.” Tara told Brienne that writing about the family made her look unstable. The threat was specific: defamation. Brienne and her husband Caleb relocated to Savannah, Georgia. The distance was the point.
But the blog survived. The posts were archived. The words Brienne had written in 2010 and 2018 and 2019, about the hitting, the nail-digging, the bed-wetting, the father’s nighttime visits, the punching, the withholding of food, existed in a format that could not be recalled by a family that had recalled everything else.
The first deposition subpoena was served on May 13, 2019.
Brienne did not appear.
At 10:44 a.m., the attorney for the plaintiff, Ned Gelhaar of Enenstein Pham & Glass, began the proceeding at 711 Third Avenue, 17th floor, New York. A court reporter was present. The deponent’s chair was empty.
At 10:45, Gelhaar stated for the record that Ms. Walsh had not attended. He terminated the deposition for the day.
The Walsh family had told Brienne to throw out the paperwork and ignore the subpoena. In a blog post from January 2020, she described the family’s reaction.
The family that had deployed in formation at driveways and courthouses across two states, the family that had coordinated vacation ruses and camouflage ambushes and false police reports, responded to the subpoena the way it responded to every document that threatened the narrative: it ordered the document destroyed.
Brienne had not set out to be a witness — except that writing about what happened to her, in public, under her own name, was testimony whether or not a court had administered an oath. The family’s response followed the pattern it had applied to every person who made the household’s interior life visible: threaten, relocate, silence. The mechanism did not distinguish between a hostile litigant and a daughter describing her own childhood. It recognized only the act of making the interior visible, and it responded to that act the way it always responded — by attempting to make the person who spoke disappear.
Brienne did not comply. She came back.
On September 28, 2020, Brienne Walsh was deposed via Zoom in connection with the California civil battery case. Russell v. Walsh, Case No. CGC-18-570137.
From Savannah, she answered questions under oath. Asked whether “abusive” was one way to describe her childhood, she answered, “Yes, I would.” Asked whether Tara grew up in the same environment, she said yes. She then qualified the description: “Not always” and “Yes, that’s what I meant” when asked whether it was sometimes abusive. Those exchanges are on transcript pages 101–102 of the preserved excerpt.
Aunt K’s archive post also reports CPS calls and family pressure. That post is part of the record of what she understood from the deposition. The preserved transcript excerpt does not include the CPS exchange; the post’s account is not presented here as a verified quotation from those pages.
The deposition line was simple, when it finally came.
Three words — “Yes, I would” — under oath, in a deposition taken for the civil case in California. Her qualification remained on the same record. “We were hit” was the language of her January 2018 blog post, a separate document.
The family yelled at Brienne for attending her own deposition.
The same family that had told her to throw out the subpoena, the same family that had threatened her with a defamation lawsuit, that had driven her to Savannah, that had responded to every piece of inconvenient documentation by attempting to destroy it, screamed at their own daughter for answering questions under oath about things that had happened to her in their house.
The subpoena was ordered discarded. The deponent was pressured not to attend. When she attended anyway, the family retaliated. But the blog had survived. The deposition had been taken. Brienne’s words, the blog posts from 2010, the deposition from 2020, could not be recalled.
At the California trial in February 2022, Tara moved to exclude her sister’s blog content. The court denied that motion without prejudice. The exhibit record lists blog posts and an email; the trial transcript also records questions about Tara’s own earlier answers concerning Brienne’s letter.
Steve’s account is that the jury had access to the evidence. The materials traced here do not establish that Brienne’s deposition was read to the jury or admitted without objection. The deposition and the blog posts remain evidence readers can examine in their own forms; the distinction does not remove either from the archive.
The family court in Westchester had access to Brienne’s public writing. Her deposition had been taken in the California civil case. Aunt K’s archive described CPS calls. The pinch mark on Evie’s thigh had been documented and sent to the Attorney for the Child.
The California jury heard the evidence and reached a verdict. The Westchester family court had the evidence and did not look.
Machine Summary
- Chapter
- B40 — We Were Hit
- Act
- Act VIII — Civil Rights (September 28, 2020)
- Summary
- Brienne Walsh wrote publicly about her childhood. In her September 28, 2020 deposition, she said it could be described as abusive, with a qualification: sometimes, not always. Her blog posts, the deposition excerpt and Aunt K’s account are distinct parts of the record.
- Tags
- Brienne Walsh, Maura Walsh, Walsh Sr., Tara Walsh, Deposition, Sworn Declaration, Trial, Two Court Systems, Multigenerational
- Related Chapters
- B04, B23, B12